Ecstasy at The Lola
An in-person pleasure laboratory for women
(Atlanta, GA)
Returning January 2027!
The thing is...
WE ARE GLORIOUS.
What happens when women gather for the sheer pleasure of feeling good?
When we give ourselves permission to slow down, soften, savor, laugh, connect, and delight in our own sensual aliveness?
Something delicious naturally emerges.
Ecstasy at the Lola (EATL) is an intimate, conversation-based, and playful gathering devoted to what I call High Ecstasy: the sensual, the beautiful, the pleasurable, the deliciously embodied.
We laugh, we weep, we delight, we celebrate, we contemplate, we feel.
Finally, finally, a space to ponder, to explore your inner landscape, to let unfurl your innate feminine brilliance.
Somtimes, we're serious. Sometimes, we are so silly. And it's all so much fuckin' fun, y'all.
Through gentle practice, conversation, and play, we explore what becomes possible when we give ourselves more fully to pleasure.
And as we soften into pleasure, we discover something even more exquisite: ecstasy.
Not necessarily louder or more intense, but closer. Softer. A deeper intimacy with our own aliveness.
We gather because pleasure feels good, yes; and when women gather in the name of pleasure...things change.
Welcome to Ecstasy at the Lola.
What We Do When We Gather
Each gathering includes:
• Time to arrive and land in your body (Chocolate is involved!)
• A yummy luxe tea — different every week! — along with a delicious fruit offering
• A short grounding reading: poetry, film, interviews, and other sources that reconnect woman and pleasure)
• Lively, honest dialogue
• Gentle, powerful, and FUN pleasure practice
• Space to digest what’s been stirred
Not only do we talk about pleasure.
We practice together. (Simple, conversation-based practices.)
What happens as a result?
Momentum happens. Glory happens. Fun happens. Power happens.
So:
Move that meeting. Leave work early. Let this be a different kind of "you" time.
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A Taste of What We've Explored
We've enjoyed two delicious iterations of Ecstasy at the Lola in 2026, with our third coming in January 2027!
Each gathering brings a fresh opportunity to explore pleasure, sensuality, and the deliciousness of being alive.
Some of our previous themes:
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Ecstasy
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Eros & Erotic Energy as Our #1 Beauty Secret
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A Sexy Woman Is a Deeply Relaxed Woman
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The Wonders of Turning Unreasonable
And there's so much more to come!
Join Us at The Lola
Returning January 2027!
We typically gather on Wednesdays, from 1:30–3 p.m., though the deliciousness often keeps us together until 4 or beyond!
Location:
The Lola Women's Co-Working Space
621 North Avenue NE, D-100
Atlanta, GA 30308
Our January dates and details will be announced soon.
Ecstasy at The Lola FAQ's
If you do trauma work, why do you also host meetings about ecstasy?
Great question! I call my work The Gospel of Ecstasy because ecstasy--what I define as good feeling in the body--heals at all levels.
In the trauma work I do via Inquiry Meditation, pleasure takes the form of compassion, interest, and kindness toward our pain.
In terms of women's vitality, pleasure takes the form of studying and practicing what lights us up--and it can change so much for us.
The effect is amplified when we practice together!
How "hands-on" is this series?
All practices are conversation- and inquiry-based. Participation is always at your own pace — gently, gently. There is no physical touch or explicit sexual practice.
I carry sexual trauma. Is this space for me?
Many women do. Everything here is designed to be trauma-informed, spacious, and choice-filled. You are welcome exactly as you are.
Why in person?
Because there’s nothing like being in the physical presence of other women who are choosing to enlarge themselves. Ecstasy is synergistic. Come see.i
Do I have to dress up?
Nope! Come as you are.
Can nonbinary people and transgender women attend?
Fuck yes.
More questions?
Contact Leslie here.